With cooler weather coming on us now, we are doing more indoor things....
Big Hearts, Open Arms
The ongoing saga of our longings for a family, God's answer to our prayers, and how He faithfully leads each step of the way.
Wednesday, November 16, 2016
Leaves, crafts, and popcorn
We try to keep life interesting around here... (Not too difficult with the rambunctious children God has given us ;-)). When the weather is nice, we are often outside playing in the yard, taking a walk, or climbing/running on the big round bales our neighbor has in the field (with permission).
With cooler weather coming on us now, we are doing more indoor things....
With cooler weather coming on us now, we are doing more indoor things....
Tuesday, October 25, 2016
Fall Fun (2016)
Fall is, without doubt, my favorite season of the year! Spring is wonderful, too, and summer and winter have their place. But fall...... There is just something about its tangy air and crisp beauty that draws me.
The following pictures capture some of our family's activities this fall.
The following pictures capture some of our family's activities this fall.
Wednesday, October 19, 2016
Catch-up: Precious Moments 2015
Beginning of 2015--
A month after receiving Sonny into our arms, we were finally cleared to travel home. How WONDERFUL that was!!!! Here are some shots of fun moments as a family at home:
Spring 2015--
Pictures:
1--The children like to play the piano... probably because Mommy does. ;-) I've started both of them on it (well, held them while I played) as soon as we brought them home.
2--It was time for Sonny's monthly picture in the rocking chair, and Missy wanted to be in it. So there she was, cracking him up! :-)
3--Missy went to bed one afternoon with the socks on her FEET. When she woke up and came out to me, this is what she looked like. :-)
4--Not sure why he looks so glum on the picture, but here Sonny was enjoying being outside, watching Daddy work on the play set.
5--Testing out the new slide. (And yes, Daddy was the next one down, I think. ;-)).
6--Sitting so big! And chewing on EVERYTHING!
7--Just being happy.
8--Daddy love
9--Priceless smile.
10--In his hero's arms.
Summer 2015--
Keep checking back... I'll be adding the rest of the seasons (fall and winter) for 2015. :)
A month after receiving Sonny into our arms, we were finally cleared to travel home. How WONDERFUL that was!!!! Here are some shots of fun moments as a family at home:
Spring 2015--
Pictures:
1--The children like to play the piano... probably because Mommy does. ;-) I've started both of them on it (well, held them while I played) as soon as we brought them home.
2--It was time for Sonny's monthly picture in the rocking chair, and Missy wanted to be in it. So there she was, cracking him up! :-)
3--Missy went to bed one afternoon with the socks on her FEET. When she woke up and came out to me, this is what she looked like. :-)
4--Not sure why he looks so glum on the picture, but here Sonny was enjoying being outside, watching Daddy work on the play set.
5--Testing out the new slide. (And yes, Daddy was the next one down, I think. ;-)).
6--Sitting so big! And chewing on EVERYTHING!
7--Just being happy.
8--Daddy love
9--Priceless smile.
10--In his hero's arms.
Summer 2015--
Keep checking back... I'll be adding the rest of the seasons (fall and winter) for 2015. :)
Monday, October 17, 2016
Catch-up: God gave us a son
Well--you all probably thought I would never re-surface on this blog again, didn't you?! Not that I blame you at all. Fact is, I myself thought it highly unlikely that I would post here again, but circumstances have motivated me to do so, and so here I am!
In August 2014, I shared that "it was all over" with the little boy we were going to adopt. Well, God always has the last word on circumstances, and we DID end up being blessed to add a son--the same baby boy--to our family months later. We will refer to him as "Sonny" on this blog.
Here he is, shortly after we brought him home:
Sonny's adoption hit some legal snags, and it took till his second birthday to complete it. But he is legally our son now, and we are THRILLED to have TWO children to call our own. We love them with all our hearts and don't even want to imagine life without them!!!
Pictures below are from Sonny's adoption finalization:
In August 2014, I shared that "it was all over" with the little boy we were going to adopt. Well, God always has the last word on circumstances, and we DID end up being blessed to add a son--the same baby boy--to our family months later. We will refer to him as "Sonny" on this blog.
Here he is, shortly after we brought him home:
Sonny's adoption hit some legal snags, and it took till his second birthday to complete it. But he is legally our son now, and we are THRILLED to have TWO children to call our own. We love them with all our hearts and don't even want to imagine life without them!!!
Pictures below are from Sonny's adoption finalization:
Wednesday, September 10, 2014
"Daddy made me a swing!"
Reuben has been wanting to put a swing up for K because she just LOVES to "sail" up into the blue sky. A couple weeks ago he selected a tree in our yard and made a swing for a very delighted little girl!
K's a total clown on it... extending her arms in a way that puts her in nearly a laying position... jerking herself back and forth to make the leaves on the tree rustle... she just loves it! Thankfully, due to the way the swing is made, it's very safe for her, in spite of her cavorting. And the higher we can push her, the better she likes it!
K's a total clown on it... extending her arms in a way that puts her in nearly a laying position... jerking herself back and forth to make the leaves on the tree rustle... she just loves it! Thankfully, due to the way the swing is made, it's very safe for her, in spite of her cavorting. And the higher we can push her, the better she likes it!
What'cha doin' up there, Daddy? Can I come up? |
Please get that nice and tight, Daddy. I don't wanna fall! |
Come on, Daddy! Hurry up!!! |
OK, fine. If you're gonna be so poky slow, I'll just go in my obstacle course! |
Mommy and me |
Trial run! |
Care-free little girl... Happy as a lark! |
Thursday, August 14, 2014
It's over... (Email updates)
August 9, 4:48pm
Well,
it's over.
Baby was
born yesterday (August 8th), but our attorney just called about an hour ago to tell us that
Birthmom had decided to keep her baby.
We were stunned and of course brokenhearted. We are not angry at Birthmom; it is her right
to keep her baby. The problem is that we had already had come to love this
little guy who we thought was going to be our son. Up until Tuesday of this
week, everything seemed to be in place. Birthmom was genuinely planning to
place him with us.
The
first hint of trouble came yesterday when the attorney called us and said that
Birthmom had decided to have skin to skin contact with Baby after birth. The
hospital social worker said that, in her experience, that has almost always led
to failed adoptions.
Naturally,
our fears were aroused, but we still hoped and prayed for the best.
About a
half hour after getting the news this afternoon, I texted Birthmom... told her
that the attorney just informed us of her decision. I told her that we are not angry at her...
that we love her... that we are still her friends. I meant every word. She wrote a really
sweet text back.
It is
not ours to know the reason behind all of this.
It seems pointless to have had 6 weeks of hope and preparation, only to
have it fall apart like this. But God
doesn't owe us an answer. He makes no mistakes. We really do believe that, even though we
definitely can't see it.
Please
pray for us as we go home to an empty crib... unpack our little boy clothes...
face K's daily inquiries and love of the word "Baby"... and
simply the death of a very real dream.
Last year on August 16th we got the call that the baby we were planning
to adopt had died in utero. Now this
year on August 9th, we get this call.
And
please pray for Birthmom and this baby we love.
I have no idea what their future will hold. She has nothing to provide for him... no diapers,
no clothes, nothing. We ache.....
Thank
you so much for hoping with us, and now for praying with us.
~Judi,
for our family
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8/13/14
We
arrived safely home last evening, Praise the Lord. It was painful to walk
into our house without the baby we fully expected to bring home with us.
I told Reuben that it kind of feels like we went to the hospital (trip to PA)
and instead of bringing home a baby, we brought a tissue box instead.
I
am reading through the Psalms these days… so comforting. David, a man
after God’s own heart, let himself feel his pain deeply… cried a lot… but after
pouring out his grief, he almost always turned his focus back on God. And
that is the balance Reuben and I are seeking to find: being honest with our
grief and the very real loss we are going through, and yet in the midst of our
grieving and tears still keep our eyes on God.
God
is good. None of this makes sense humanly speaking… so many unanswered
questions… so much emptiness and brokenness for both of us, though we
express it in different ways. And yet, here and there, we see little bits
of beauty that are coming out of this, and we praise God.
Please
keep praying; and thank you for journeying with us.
God
bless you!
~Judi, for our family
~Judi, for our family
Thursday, July 24, 2014
2 YEARS old!!!
That's right! Our darling, high-maintenance, flamboyantly joyful little girl has reached her second birthday. Time flies!!! In some ways it seems like a long time since her birth... since we first held her tiny little body next to our hearts. But the idea of the next many years (till whenever she leaves home) flying as fast as the last two..... I don't like that one bit! I want her to grow, to mature, etc. but I don't want her to leave! As I often say, she's an awful lot of work (most always on the move, all day long), but she's even more joy.
WE LOVE OUR LITTLE DARLING!!!!!!!!!!!!
Here she is...
WE LOVE OUR LITTLE DARLING!!!!!!!!!!!!
Here she is...
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